Sometimes we face challenges and are overcome by different obstacles in life. There are things that make us discouraged and are meant to take our happiness away. The hardest battle when that happens is not necessarily what happens to us but how we react to adversity. The biggest challenge for most of us is how we take every thought captive and then stay in control.
Out of many books I have read, faith is the secret. Jesus stated that faith moves mountains. If we have faith the size of a mustard seed, everything is possible for those that believe.
Now what do we do when things does not seem fair. What do we do when everything seems like is going against us and our dignity seems to be crushed.
The first step is to take every thought captive. Try to listen and understand what God is telling you. There is an answer to every problem. There is a reason for everything single thing. God is always trying to talk to us and teach us through so many different ways.
Visualize exactly what you want, have faith, and pray.